Rookies Rule OK
I have been reading Jessica Maxwell's book "Driving myself Crazy" and in America they call beginner golfers Rookies apparently,
although I always thought that was what they called Law Enforcement Officers.
The Big News this week is that this "Rookie" won her first ever bona fide competition!
On Tuesday afternoon after several weeks off golf with my back /rib injury I finally played the pending final in the Handicap Match Play Competition.
My opponent has a 21 handicap and I have an 18 so on the 2nd and 5th holes( the two most difficult ones) I had to give her a shot i.e if i do it in 6 shots she has 7 shots to do it in.
I got off to a very bad start on No.1. After a good long drive, my second shot with the newly trusted 5 iron, veered wildly off to the right disappearing over a hummock never to be seen again! After searching for the allowed five minutes and failing to retrieve my lovely pink Srixon ball our referee(oh yes we had to have one of those , it being an official competition match and all) informed us that I had to concede the hole.
Hmm bad bad start!
And then on No2 I have to give my opponent a shot so she wins the hole .
The tension is mounting, I am already two down as I tee off on the 3rd and have to remind myself to Breathe and focus.
We both end up in the bunker to the left of the green and manage tidy shots out of the sand but mine lands very close to the hole and I take the honour by one shot.
A beautiful drive on No 4 takes me within easy reach of the green but my chip shot lands too far from the hole for me to putt in neatly for a Par so I have to be content with a Bogey. But I have won the hole and we are on equal footing again. So I am back in with a chance.
No5 at Avondale is a most difficult Par 5 and I am yet to play with a lady that does it in Par. So I am well pleased with my double Bogey(7) which sadly is not enough for me to win the hole asI have to give Diane a shot on this hole too. So we halve the hole(this means it is a draw).
Neck and neck we go into the 6th and then the 7th and before I know it I am two down again. What a blur. How did that happen?
Standing on the tee box on the 8th realizing I have to win the next two holes to just get even I am suddenly aware of the big mental component to this game called Golf. I have never experienced this so acutely before,perhaps because I have never been attached to the outcome?
For whatever reason the next two holes turned into a battle with my Self.
A seesaw struggle between the negative voices telling me I just can't perform under pressure and never have been able to.The voice that reminds you of all your failures-like the time you muffed your lines after nights of great performances just because the talent scout was in the audience.
Ah come on! Think positively.stay steady and calm and Focus.
It is only a game and all you have to do is Breathe and play the next shot.
I hear my father's voice(he had left a message on my answer phone earlier in the day to wish me good luck) assuring me that I can win the game,he knows I can! Oh no! I don't want to disappoint him and end up using my recent back injury as a poor excuse when really it is about a loss of nerve under pressure.
I finger the Mizpah hanging around my neck,worn by three generations of women in my family-it is my 'lucky charm' and I always wear it when I am needing strength and courage.
It is like having the hands of both my grandmother and my mother resting on my shoulders .
The referee tells me this is called Dormie i.e when one player is ahead by the same number of holes as there are holes remaining to be played.
Not a great position for me to be in.It is all pressure at this point!
I play well. I win the 8th.
We are still in Dormie!
I do a great drive-straight and long, as I often do on No9.
I am playing well and staying calm,it is still possible to win this game if I just focus and play one shot at a time.
And yes! I win the hole and we are even after 9 holes.
Now we must go straight to No1 !
It is a play off now. The first to win a hole takes the Match.
Okay I have to win it on this hole because if we draw and go on to No2 I have to give Diane a shot because of the Handicap differential.
Fantastic drive and I don't lose the ball on my second shot this time around. All is going very well and I am on the green for three. It is looking good!
A putt that comes up about two foot short of the hole but this is within my comfort zone and I confidently step up to take my winning putt.
But this is Golf we're talking about!
We all watch as the ball rolls gently toward the target .
AND THEN ROLLS AROUND THE RIM AND DOES NOT DROP.
Poor referee. We now have to play an eleventh hole and it is No2 and I have to give that shot. BUGGER.
Up rear all those negative thoughts again.
OMG
I am going to lose after all this.
I am not sure quite how I do it but I go into a calm and quiet place.
I play this hole well and Diane has a couple of not so great shots .
I finish with a 6 and she with an 8 so even when she takes off the 1 shot I am 1Up as they say in Golf.
I have won the Match Play Competition.
I don't really know what that means . I guess I get a trophy or something?
My Dad will be stoked.
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Mizpah with Earthquake damage |
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Lucky Mizpah and Lucky Hat |